20 Good Questions To Ask Your Future WIFE Or HUSBAND

Don't get freaked out…. Here is a list of those important things you should know when getting to know someone, you might not get to ask them directly, but still find a way to ask or know all the answers to the 20 points listed below:

1) What is your concept of marriage?

2) Have you been married before?

3) Are you married now?

4) What are you expectations of marriage?

5) What are your goals in life? (Long term and short term)

6) Identify three things that you want to accomplish in the near future.

7) Identify three things that you want to accomplish, long term.

8] Why have you chosen me/other person as a potential spouse?

9) What is the role of religion in your life now?

10) Are you a spiritual person?

11) What is your understanding of an Islamic marriage?

12) What are you expecting of your spouse, religiously?

13) What is your relationship between yourself and the Muslims community in your area?

14) Are you volunteering in any Islamic activities?

15) What can you offer your zawj (spouse), spiritually?

16) What is the role of the husband?

17) What is the role of the wife?

18) Do you want to practice polygamy?

19) What is your relationship with your family?

20) What do you expect your relationship with the family of your spouse to be?