It takes all kinds. If you like the way she kisses you, then she's good for you.
She's a good dancer
Even if you're not, the way she moves her body vertically may be an indicator of her horizontal skills.
She's flexible
She could be a yoga instructor, a ballerina, a contortionist... basically, these allow for more possibilities in bed.
She Enjoys Tasting Her Food
You won't always get a chance to see a woman work over an ice cream cone or provide some other obvious oral showcase. Still, whenever things are going in her mouth, she has an opportunity to employ the oldest of sexual metaphors. What does she do with this situation? Does she handle/cut up the food daintily? Does she put it in her mouth sensually? Animalistically? Absent-mindedly? Does she chew like a lady, or like a dog? Does she even seem aware of the messages she's conveying, like it or not? If not, she may not be interested in you in a sexual way.
She Talks About Sex
She often makes sexual references and discusses what she likes/does in bed. If she does it too much, however, she may be overcompensating, and
could just be a tease. Does she seem to know what she's talking about? The important thing is that she be open to talking about it, or better yet (because it's more subtle), that sexual innuendo not put her off.
She Doesn't Talk Too Much
Loosely speaking, I've noticed a bit of an inverse correlation between chattiness and bedroom skills. That is, they might be more used to impressing with their words than their actions, or may even be consciously trying to compensate for one with the other. Quieter women, on the other hand, are often demons in the sack. They prefer to express themselves non-verbally... although they get vocal when you get them in the right spot. Put another way, if the woman won't be quiet, do you want to deal with that
during foreplay
, or especially after run-of-the-mill sex?
What She Suggests As A Date
This applies if you've taken down her number and then arrange a date with her. A woman who is not afraid to go to a bar where there's dancing probably has more confidence, for example. Likewise for a woman who suggests something unconventional for a date. If she suggests something more platonic, like lunch, she's deliberately taking it slow because she's still uncomfortable -- with you, with herself, or some combo thereof.
She keeps touching you, works out, and knows a massage when she feels one...
She's Touchy-Feely
If she initiates physical contact or reciprocates yours, she understands that the earlier you start the sexual vibe, the more time tension has to build, and the bigger the eventual release. She may touch your shoulder, caress your arm and/or hold your hand when she leans in close and talks to you.
She Works Out
Physical conditioning is fundamental to good sex. It affects stamina, position possibilities and, of course, physical confidence. After physical chemistry, probably the biggest factor that goes into whether you'll have good sex with someone is the physical shape you're both in. After all, it's not only for aesthetic reasons that men today admire tight abs and strong thighs in a woman.
She Often Gets Massages & Goes To Spas
This could say that she enjoys being pampered and the pleasures of the flesh, which may mean she likes reciprocating the same feeling. And if she's a massage therapist, she's obviously in touch with, well, touch -- a good sign.
Her Home Is A Cool/Soothing Environment
If she invites you over to her pad, maybe she has mood music
playing, or she lights candles/incense and dims the lights, etc. Since she has control over the environment in her place, what she chooses to have going on when you arrive -- or sets up in the first minutes after you arrive together -- is one of the most conscious ways a woman might indicate her sexuality.
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