producer, Cobhams Asuquo who is now a husband and father, tell the
intriguing story of how a blind kid turned his disability to a success story.
Born like other normal children, Cobhams seemed perfectly normal until
about three months after when his very observant mother began noticing
his awkwardness.
She quickly took him to the University Teaching Hospital in Ibadan
from where they were referred to a hospital in Kano. There, her
worst fears were confirmed; her son had been blind from the
womb and nothing could be done to restore his sight
Rather than cry and blame God for her seeming 'ill' fate, Mrs Asuquo, who
was a clerical officer in the army, resigned to take care of her son and
prepare him adequately for a future she knew had to be great. It wasn't
easy at all. Her first responsibility was showing him that his blindness
wasn't a disability. "It wasn't easy watching Cobhams do chores around the
house and run errands like my other children but I resolved to make him as
independent and capable of achieving anything he sets his mind to do.
I showed him where his box of clothes was and would ask him to
go get his clothes after bathing him," Mrs Asuquo says. These
trainings came in handy when he had to move into the boarding
school for his secondary education.
Cobhams' father was an officer in the army and was hardly ever around so
it was up to the mother to train and sometimes solely cater for her children.
At some point, when he was seconded to Chad Republic, things became so
unbearable that she had to boil and sell groundnuts to sustain the family. It
was in the course of this that she noticed her son's love for the drums. "He
would beat on anything he could lay his hands on so I encouraged him by
buying him musical toys. Cobhams never went to school to learn to play
any music instrument; I think it was just an escape route for him," she
says.
She was therefore not surprised when he decided to drop out of the
University of Lagos as a 300 level student of Law to face his passion full
time.
Alongside the Asuquos, the mother of celebrated filmmaker cum
actor, Kunle Afolayan, Mrs Omoladun Afolayan, shares her
emotions, especially having to cope and cater for her kids while
the patriarch, travelling theatre artist and filmmaker, Ade Love
travelled round the globe. Born in 1943, Moladun got married at
an early age to the handsome and famous Ade Love when she was
quite young. Since her husband was always on the road and had
other wives and children to cater for, preferring also to invest a
lot in his art, each of his wives had the responsibility of caring for
their children. A street 'puff puff' seller, who later 'graduated' into
selling pepper soup, Kunle, her most famous child, was barely five
years old when they were rendered homeless during the 'Ghana-
Must-Go' era. These stories will feature in this week's Celebrity
edition of Supermom showing TV stations across the country.
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