got this over BBM™. Read below:
“I am a 23year old female. My parents died when i was 8 and so i dropped out of school because no-one could afford enough money to pay my fees. I then met this guy when i was 14 and he struggled to send me back to school. He was selling fruit on the street just to pay my fees. He then got a job as a truck driver and
continued to send me to school even to the university, of which i am eternally grateful to him for. Indeed there are angels made by God to help the needy in times of trouble.
My problem is that i feel i can’t continue with this
relationship because he is not my type, i am not the girl that i used
to be when he first saw me, don’t get it wrong, i am honestly
appreciative of what God has used him to do in my life but i just cant get totally committed to him based on pity or how he’s helped me. So I’m thinking How best can i tell him that he is not my type without hurting his feelings?? I
am grateful that he sent me to school but i can’t be in a relationship with him anymore. I want somebody my own class not a truck driver.”
continued to send me to school even to the university, of which i am eternally grateful to him for. Indeed there are angels made by God to help the needy in times of trouble.
My problem is that i feel i can’t continue with this
relationship because he is not my type, i am not the girl that i used
to be when he first saw me, don’t get it wrong, i am honestly
appreciative of what God has used him to do in my life but i just cant get totally committed to him based on pity or how he’s helped me. So I’m thinking How best can i tell him that he is not my type without hurting his feelings?? I
am grateful that he sent me to school but i can’t be in a relationship with him anymore. I want somebody my own class not a truck driver.”
what advice would you give this young lady?
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